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June Reflection

Written by Kristy · 2 min read >

What a month. Though this blog is mainly focused around candid reviews and not my personal life, I would be remiss to gloss over the state of the world these past few weeks. 

As someone who has benefitted from light-skinned privilege and the oft-weaponized “model minority” myth, I realize that it is my duty to do better. Specifically, to actively fight against the systemic racism that has so thoroughly permeated our society. My goal is not to make this post about me – but to hopefully help others who may stumble upon this blog. 

Danielle Coke (@ohhappydani) has done an incredible job providing digestible frameworks for allyship and action. If you are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, and unsure of what to do next – I highly recommend her posts and stories:

And to put the above in context – how have I personally used this framework to drive productive action?

In my personal / home life:

  • Learning
    • I have spent the last few weeks going through resources to understand the history and scope of systemic racism, with a goal of zeroing in on a focus area.
    • If you haven’t already, I recommend watching 13th (also available free on YouTube), LA92 and The Last Black Man in San Francisco, all are on Netflix. As a follow up to the latter, I recommend UC Berkeley Haas Institute’s report on the history of racially exclusionary housing in the San Francisco Bay Area.
    • I am currently reading Layla Saad’s Me and White Supremacy, and Ibram X. Kendi’s How to be an Anti-Racist up next.
  • Government
    • I am ashamed to admit that I simply ‘opted out of politics’ after the 2016 elections. It is my duty to research, to use my voice and my vote to elect local officials who have clear, community driven solutions and to push for policy change.
    • And because I have the means to do so, I will research and contribute where I can to campaigns outside of my home state (California) that are aligned with the above
  • Diversifying my Circles & Media
    • Quite honestly, I think this is the most challenging of the three listed here – but easily one of the most important.

In my business / blog life:

  • Hold Businesses Accountable
    • Not only as a consumer with my wallet, but also as a partner when applicable.
    • Quite honestly, the fashion industry as a whole is problematic in this realm. It sadly comes as little surprise to learn that companies like The Reformation (read here) and Vogue (read here) had horrible environments. 
    • In the case of Reformation – while their CEO stepped down amidst the backlash, other guilty leadership members have not. So until that changes, I will no longer be buying their items, promoting/reviewing their brand, and will update my existing review post to encourage readers to purchase secondhand instead. 
  • Shop (and Promote) BIPOC 
    • My goal is to discover and promote BIPOC-owned businesses in multiple verticals. Specifically, those I am passionate about: clothing/fashion, makers and the outdoors community.
  • Donate to Community Organizations
    • I’ve added the National Lawyers Guild (SF Chapter) as a recurring donation in addition to my ongoing ACLU one. I also contributed to bail funds in several major cities during the first week of June.
    • Next, I am researching organizations in specific areas (ex. early childhood education and access to outdoor programs) that I can donate to or volunteer with on an ongoing basis.
    • Note: If you don’t currently have the financial means to donate, but want to support – many people have come up with creative ways to ‘fundraise’ via content engagement. For example, with wendy, a sewist/DIY YouTuber I follow, is donating her June ad earnings to BLM related funds.

And in my work life

  • I am very grateful to work at a company that values culture, diversity and inclusion. So much so that we include these values within our entire recruiting process. Of course, there is always more to be done, and we have a team (and the company) dedicated to having those tough conversations so we can continuously improve.

Lastly, this is a marathon and not a sprint. I will continue listening, learning and working, because there is so much more to do.

2 Replies to “June Reflection”

  1. I definitely feel you on a lot of these points! And thank you for these resources. As a fellow blogger, I’m curious to know your opinions about the racism over at Everlane as highlighted by the Ex.Wives.Club.

  2. Thanks Elaine! It is definitely upsetting to see the similarities in injustices between Reformation and Everlane, especially given the latter’s emphasis on ‘radical transparency’. And I’ve been following these past few days to see how Everlane would respond.

    I think it’s a start that their CEO responded (vs hiding behind the brand) with some defined next steps (ie. them working with Out of Privilege for trainings), publishing a regular report, creating a safe HR space). But I also agree that they should do more – especially concerning their CCO, the lack of their commitments on their website, and better supply chain transparency.

    Admittedly, I am finding it tougher to cancel them completely (compared to Ref), because they are often the ‘gateway’ brand for people starting their ethical / sustainable journey at an inclusive price point. It is difficult to find brands that perfectly encompass price (affordability), style (this is personal, of course), and ethics + sustainability.

    That being said, now is the time for hard decisions – I have one additional review queued, which will be my last until we see real progress from their end. And like with Ref, I’ll encourage folks to buy secondhand if possible. While I won’t judge anyone for purchasing from Everlane over a fast-fashion alternative, I would urge them to also push the brand to do better.

    Would love to hear your thoughts as well (btw, I am a fan of your reviews)!

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